Immaculate Perceptions

Monday, December 12, 2005

"When we were like you..." Oh no, not again!!

Why is it that invariably all parents had less than what their offsprings have? Less money, less freedom,less choices... less of almost everything. And the worst part is they choose to remember this only when they don't wannna grant us the lassiez passer to do something.

Start watching a late night movie and mom wud b there with the stereotyped lies oops... lines," When we were like you, we weren't allowed to listen to even the radio. And u ppl today r hooked 24 hrs to the tv!!". I try giving a "So...?"-look, and straight she'd go to dad, kicking a fuss that I hardly know what respect is... I have no other choice but to put off the tv, lest our midnight argument disturbs our neighbours.

If I wanna bring home a guy to work on a project, I better b prepared to listen to the stories of how, "When they were like us", were not given the go-ahead to talk to boys or gals (depending on which parent chooses to counsel dat day). There'd b oodles of such instances..."we didn't wear anything except a saree those days", "our parents didn't give us any pocket money", " we used to travel only by a bicycle", etc, etc...

Now, don't think that am a spoilt brat who pays no heed to the words of my parents. I do understand what kinda life they lived, how unfortunate they were to not enjoy a life like we do... but why shud they keep reminding us of it everytime we wanna enjoy?

11 Comments:

Blogger IcEyeZ said...

(over frm Godolphin's blog)
Hey Deepa,

Keep kool ! There are many parents who dont end up being receptive. It is not that they really wanna lament, but their subconsious minds of unfulfilled desires might ask them to do so !

10:14 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey Deep, thnks for commenting in when I Most needed it....btw the only use of living in a hostel is that u dont have to hear all that from ur parents. but it comes at a lot of cost like the home made food and frnds and family back home...:(

10:19 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey Deepa,

I tptallu understand what you say and am with you .. i felt the same way but as i grew opinions changed ...

Not that what they say is right..but how to approach a situation and makng them understand what we feel .. its always good to talk to them, keep them informed of everything that happens in our life (its such a good feeling for both of us) SO as we tell them more things their picture of our generation gets wider ... and they will start to see the changes and wouldn't mind standing by it...

Its just my opinion that worked...maybe u cud try :)

8:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

thats the generation gap..aint it?

5:53 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Neat Post..Generation Gap,J Factor..what else can we say.
But I normally give it back to my mom like saying my grandmom never watched soaps for 12hours a day or neither did she have all the comforts fo electric appliances to cook ;D...

There r also another bunch of parents who try to force things down.. like they wud have wished to become a doc or engineer but failed and will be forcing their kids to become one.My dad wanted to become a Chartered Accountant but cud not and he was trying to talk me into it and make me one..But I resented..So its all finally upto us.

7:47 PM  
Blogger Devesh Prabhu said...

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3:50 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey ... Happy new year .... sry abt the late response...btw where are u ... not blogging....hmmmm

8:54 AM  
Blogger Unknown said...

well, this happens with almost all families in India!...but what parents dont seem to understand is the fact that such dialogues only end up being a negative motivation to their kids! The kids only get irritated, let alone getting any inspiration whatsoever!!

7:10 AM  
Blogger Devesh Prabhu said...

What has happened to you, it is now over a month and you are not posting anything here. Have you gone to sleep like a bear and waiting for the summer to come?

11:09 AM  
Blogger Mr said...

Hi, what happened to you..
No new posts????

11:44 AM  
Blogger arun said...

hey this is one thing tat i had always had in my mind , may be u have put down thigns tat i had always wanted to tell , and its nice to see someone put down something tat 've always wanted to have a say at.... same frequency huh.. cool keep up the good job

11:05 PM  

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